Who knew that THIS is the trick to getting the most out of your online dating profile?
You may be astonished to find out why online dating sites aren’t working for you. It’s not creeps sexting you pictures of their junk, it’s not gold-diggers out for free meals, it’s not married people secretly looking for a little activity on the side, it’s not scammers or catfish preying on lonely people in an attempt to extort money.
Believe me, I’ve heard all the horror stories in my work as a relationship coach. Despite the shocking dark side of looking for love online, the reality might shock you even more because it’s unexpected.
What is the real reason online dating isn’t working for you?
The truth is no matter what your practice or back story, the main reason why online dating doesn’t work for the majority of people is shockingly plain&mdash,its ineffective or poorly developed profiles. That’s the shock of it.
Many of the fights are self-inflicted. Now, if that sentence offends you at all, that may be a clue for you to pay special attention. I didn’t say it’s all your fault or that you somehow deserve to suffer, on the contrary, I do this work because I believe everyone is worth to feel more loved than they’ve felt before . and that includes you.
The reality is, one third of all fresh marriages began with an online date, so there is absolutely no doubt whatsoever that online dating does undeniably work. But, here’s the other interesting statistic&mdash,only about 20% of online daters say it’s working for them, which is defined by whether they’re dating, in a relationship, engaged or married as a result.
If you do the quick and elementary math there, that means that 80% of online daters are NOT getting the result they think they’re paying for on those sites. I don’t know about you, but those odds suck if you ask me. Too many indeed good people are getting frustrated and beginning to doubt themselves because they might not be fine writers or understand one other critical distinction that makes all the difference. Let me explain.
Your dating profile is an advertisement.
That’s because its job is to get attention, cause engagement, pique curiosity, create a favorable impression and generate a response. If your profile fails at any single one of those jobs, you fail. Game over. No click? No date. No intrigue? No sale.
The difference inbetween a good ad and a bad ad is breathtakingly ordinary. A good ad works and gets a response, which is the intended result, a bad ad gets overlooked and is a tremendous waste of time, money and resources. As a former award-winning advertising copywriter before I got into relationship coaching, this is amazingly demonstrable to me, but to most it’s not.
If you asked me to securely split an atom, let’s just say I wouldn’t sound or look almost as wise as I might in this particular area. That’s why I wrote a book designed to tilt the odds back in favor of all those good people so they can love all the love they truly deserve. Recall, we’re talking about 80% of millions of people. There are A LOT of excellent catches slipping through those nets every day and I want to switch that.
The specific problem with most dating profiles is that they lack a cohesive and coherent message, so it’s no surprise that potential playmates lose the thread or check out early. That’s an automatic fail. If someone can’t get a ",take away,", they will tend to ",go away.",
Rather than suggesting crystal clarity about what the writer brings to the table for their playmate, instead they concentrate on self-serving, pointless, and unconvincing recitations of their own requests. That sounds more like a ransom letter than a love note to the fucking partner you haven’t yet met, doesn’t it?
Is it any wonder that’s not working? If it wouldn’t work with you, why do you think someone else might be intrigued by that treatment? With all due respect, do you think the fact that you’re a boy who loves sports or a woman who loves jeans and a lovely little black cocktail dress truly makes you stand out from the crowd? Come on! You can’t indeed expect to get attention if your profile blends in and sounds like every other profile, can you?
That’s the shocking truth. Your dating profile is failing&mdash,just like 80% of them do&mdash,because it’s missing some key ingredients that people need in order to see you as a viable, potential fucking partner. I’m sorry if that sounds blunt but I care enough to level with you because I want to see you succeed.
That’s why I’ve come up with a elementary formula that will walk you through how to create an enticing and effective profile that’s specific and uniquely designed just for you. If that makes sense to you, check this out:
I don’t have room to cover it all here but in my fresh book, I train you step-by-step how to write a dating profile that’s clear, concise and exceptionally compelling. It’s called the Catch Your Match Formula&trade,. I train you how to stand out from the crowd of your competitors and get the attention of high-quality potential playmates. I train you how to generate the Three Cs of attraction from Curiosity, to Connection, to Chemistry.
I instruct you how to undeniably demonstrate your value and create attraction before you ever even meet. I train you how to get into someone’s head and on the way to their heart ethically, honestly and with integrity.
Perhaps, most importantly, I train you the one elementary trick that gets you to the top of the search engines so your profile can get the added attention that will get you noticed. That’s how one client got to the Top 100 most visited profiles on her entire dating site only 8 days after it went live. Check it out here.
The bottom line? There’s no reason to throw away good money on dating sites when you can simply throw away your old, ineffective profile instead. I can demonstrate you how to use some of that same info and give it a fresh twist that gets results. What have you got to lose but your own frustration or loneliness?