I’m about to share with you the thickest mistake most guys make when it comes to meeting women.
Are you ready for it?
Because here it is.
The thickest mistake most guys make when going out to meet women, is that they only attempt and meet Junior women.
Now, that’s not a bad thing, mind you. But there’s a entire category of women who can be just as beautiful, just as interesting, and just as joy. And that is older women.
Whether the dame is just a little bit older than you, or ten years older, it doesn’t matter. Older women tend to have a lot more practice with life, love, and most of all – other dudes! They’ve usually learned what it takes to make their man blessed, so a relationship with an older woman can be enormously rewarding.
Unluckily, most studs disregard women who are older than they are, and miss out on a fantastic chance to meet tons and tons of available, ready, and willing fucking partners!
So it all comes down to this:
Are you interested in dating a woman who’s older than you are?
Do you find older women more attractive than their junior counterparts?
Well, my friend, you are not alone!
Older women are much more “mature” and experienced in the ways of love. They’ve usually had a lot of practice dealing with boys, and know their way around the bedroom.
They can also be MUCH lighter to deal with than junior women, who can tend to be a little “high maintenance.”
If you’re a man in your mid-to-late 20s who’s mostly been with women in their late teenagers and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!
They tend to be more mature and less selfish &ndash, sexually, and in just about every other way &ndash, than the women you’re used to dating. And if you’re not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they’re not either, if they’re just past child-bearing age.
In that way, they’re kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and junior, who don’t feel compelled to commence a family in the way that single women who’ve hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she’s more likely to feel that now’s the time to act if she’s ever going to have children.
That’s because she’s not getting any junior, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it’s only going to get tighter to find a good man she can lodge down with.
(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of dudes make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel boys because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfy with. And a lot of women at this stage will lodge for a man who they’re not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)
So how can you embark meeting older women?
You&rsquo,re not so likely to find them at elegant nightclubs, but you can find them just about everywhere else you can find attractive women: while you&rsquo,re out shopping, at coffee houses, local bars, or in bookstores. You can also meet them through school, volunteer activities or through friends.
But bar none, the BEST place to meet older women is online dating sites.
Sites like Match.com and E-Harmony have a bevy of older women just looking for some man to come along and sweep them off their feet.
Some of them have kids, most of them are divorced, but one thing they all have in common is that they’re very likely looking to have a good time!
Also, more and more over 30 women are heading towards social networking sites like MySpace as a way to meet fresh people. Just by doing a quick search for your target age range in your local area on MySpace will yield a number of potential older women you can meet.
But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you determine to get married: If there’s a 15-year age difference inbetween you, then she’ll be 50 when you’re 35!
But that’s not to say that you shouldn’t meet and date an older woman. It can be a fine practice for you, if you’re aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.